1. First and foremost: celebrate this milestone

Congratulations from the bottom of my heart! 💍 That moment when you decide to spend your lives together is everything. Give yourself permission to fully feel the joy before diving into to-do lists. Whether it’s a quiet evening with champagne, a family dinner, or a spontaneous celebration with friends—make this moment yours, exactly how you want it.

2. Start dreaming together

Before spreadsheets and bookings, take time to talk. A lot. What kind of wedding do you both truly envision? Is it an intimate gathering or a joyful weekend bash with all your friends? What matters most: the location, the food, the vibe, or the people? Explore what reflects your personalities and values. Also, discuss how you’ll share the tasks—who has the time or energy for what?

3. Define your budget boundaries

Before diving into specific plans, set a rough budget. How much can and do you want to spend? Your priorities will evolve as you research, but even a ballpark figure gives structure and helps with decision-making.

4. Choose your venue and set a date

Your venue will define so much: your date, the vibe, logistics. Choose a place where you feel truly yourselves. Consider practical aspects—indoor/outdoor options, rain plans, accessibility, catering rules—and listen to your intuition. If it feels right, it probably is.

5. Notify your loved ones

Once you have a date and location, share it with your closest family and friends. This gives them time to request time off or plan around travel. Don’t underestimate how much this helps them feel included and valued.

6. Book your key vendors early

Some vendors, especially photographers and videographers, book up over a year in advance. Once your date is set, start looking for the professionals who will shape your day. Do your research, and try to choose not just based on budget, but on vibe and trust. You deserve a team that gets you.

7. Say yes to the dress (and suit!)

Whether you’re buying, renting, or having something made, start early! Explore your options—maybe even try on a vintage dress from your mum or grandma, or discover your dream gown secondhand. And don’t forget the little things: shoes, jewelry, a veil or hairpiece, and quality hair & makeup pros who help you feel amazing.

8. Outline the ceremony and details

Start visualizing the ceremony. Civil or religious? Or maybe a friend-led symbolic ritual? Think about the seating plan, floral style (seasonal flowers can make a huge difference), and the invitations. These are detailed decisions, but keeping your shared vision in mind will help you navigate them.

+1. Enjoy the ride

Planning can feel overwhelming, but don’t forget—it’s also a beautiful, once-in-a-lifetime journey. This is a chapter full of new memories: food tastings with family, trying on dresses with friends, giggling over color palettes. Let the joy in. These moments are just as meaningful as the day itself.

And when the time comes to capture your love story, I’d love to be there for you. Let’s create something truly unforgettable together!